So come with me, where dreams are born, and time is never planned. Just think of happy things, and your heart will fly on wings, forever, in Never Never Land!
Sunday, May 3, 2009
Some Bunny's One!
Casey got double the fun with his birthday falling on the Saturday right before Easter. The girls enjoyed the week of activities as well including four Easter egg hunts. I am sure they rank Easter right behind Christmas. I have taught them the religious significance of Easter, but they were much more impressed with the amount of candy that came along with this holiday. Easter Sunday was overload. The morning started with an egg hunt at Grandma and Grandpa Friesenhahn's house with all of the extended family: cousins, aunts, and uncles. This being only their second year of egg hunting, the girls were not to sure what to do. But thanks to the help of some of the older girls, they walked away with a full basket of real and plastic eggs, bubbles, and other goodies. Even Casey got a couple of eggs that were promplty snatched away by Ava.


The morning was good practice, because in the afternoon most of the party headed over to Gram's house for additional Easter activities. This time the girls were on top of their game, and really got into running around the back yard scouring for eggs. The Easter Bunny has gotten much more generous in the 21st century, and the girls not only got an Easter basket full of candies, but they also got some bigger toys as well.
Ryan had to work during the day, but was able to join the rest of us in the evening to help celebrate Casey's birthday. By this time, poor little C.J. was exhausted and the girls were hyped up on suger after eating nothing but candy all day. Nothing like cake to round out your daily caloric intake. Sometimes, you just have make exceptions as a parent.
Happy Birthday Baby Boy!

Bouncing like bunnies.
Friday, April 3, 2009
Major Milestones
- In mid-December he started crawling.
- In late February he started pulling himself up.
- By mid-March he was cruising.
- At the end of March he could stand on his own.
- Now he is walking (and shopping).
- Still no hair.
The last year has flown by. Casey is now testing the water with walking, which has lead to a bunch of bumps and bruises. I got to sign 3 accident reports at school this week. He is eating a variety of table food. He still hates green veggies. He is transitioning to whole milk and s sippy cup. Soon he will switch to just one nap a day and move to the Tiny Tot's room at school which means sleeping on a cot instead of a crib. Our Baby Casey is quickly becoming Little CJ, as Ava now like to refer to him.
Sick Days
Courtesy of cousin Milo and his germs that he picked up some some little kid on the airplane, I got a call last week to pick up Casey from school because of a fever. Milo was really sick (fever, very cranky, and not sleeping) for about a week, so I was fearing the worse. Luckily, Casey's virus was much more mild, and after a fun day at home with mom he was able to return to school.
Helping me, while I worked from home.
Look, he is standing on his own.
Look, he is standing on his own.
Then at the beginning of this week I got a call to pick up Elizabeth at school because of fever. Unfortunately, Elizabeth caught a much nastier virus that brought a high fever and hacking cough, which led her to spend two days at home watching cartoons. She was shooting for a third but I told her that there was no one to stay home with her other than Sam the dog. I do have to thank the makers of Tylenol and Motrin. I will proclaim them as wonder drugs. They worked wonderfully for Elizabeth's fever, and she was jammin' by evening number 2.
However, now I am getting a headache from listening to the same songs over and over again since Christmas. Thanks Beau and Alli, don't be surpise when this guitar show up in your mailbox.
Thursday, April 2, 2009
Batter Up!
Before Christmas: Elizabeth asked to play T-ball, so we signed her up with a youth team and got her the necessary gear. She was pumped about playing, only for the season to be canceled due to lack of interest.
That brings us to the spring: Now there seamed to be no lack of interest and the league was able to put together eight 3-4 year old teams. However, Elizabeth's interest had seemed to wane and she was telling us that she wanted to play soccer instead. Being the great parents that we are (and having already invested money for the registration fee, ball, bat, and glove), we told her she had to play anyway. That of course brought on may rounds of tears, and I was anxious for her behavior at the first practice.
Side bar: For those of you who don't know. Elizabeth started gymnastics back in August and loved it. Around January she was starting to say that she didn't like gymnastics any more, and by February the mere mention of gymnastics brought tears, passive aggressive behavior, and her even faking a stomach ache to get out of going to gymnastics. This was especially frustrating to me because I had Ava dying to get into a gymnastics class but can't because she isn't three, and Elizabeth wanting to get out of class. Bottom line, she is finishing out the semester which runs until the beginning of June. She has two of her good friends in class with her, and always comes out smiling and happy at the end of class, and we don't want to endorse quitter behavior. If she wants to take the summer off that is fine. We need to do swimming lessons anyway, and we will re-address gymnastics in the fall when Ava is old enough to take class.
Back to T-ball: First practice went well, and the game went even better. (She wore her outfit for two days straight.) Elizabeth loves T-ball, and informed me she doesn't want to go to gymnastics anymore and wants to play T-ball every day. Hopefully, her enthusiasm lasts until the end of the season. I would like to thank her cousin, Chance, for teaching her the fundamentals, she is actually quite good. She is probably the third best kid on her team, an the other two are better only because they will be 5 next month and have bit more speed, power, and coordination. I will tell you it quite funny to watch these kids play. The can't catch, their throwing isn't much better, and some even run the wrong way after hitting the ball two feet, but it is a really good non competitive atmosphere and the kids love it.
That brings us to the spring: Now there seamed to be no lack of interest and the league was able to put together eight 3-4 year old teams. However, Elizabeth's interest had seemed to wane and she was telling us that she wanted to play soccer instead. Being the great parents that we are (and having already invested money for the registration fee, ball, bat, and glove), we told her she had to play anyway. That of course brought on may rounds of tears, and I was anxious for her behavior at the first practice.
Side bar: For those of you who don't know. Elizabeth started gymnastics back in August and loved it. Around January she was starting to say that she didn't like gymnastics any more, and by February the mere mention of gymnastics brought tears, passive aggressive behavior, and her even faking a stomach ache to get out of going to gymnastics. This was especially frustrating to me because I had Ava dying to get into a gymnastics class but can't because she isn't three, and Elizabeth wanting to get out of class. Bottom line, she is finishing out the semester which runs until the beginning of June. She has two of her good friends in class with her, and always comes out smiling and happy at the end of class, and we don't want to endorse quitter behavior. If she wants to take the summer off that is fine. We need to do swimming lessons anyway, and we will re-address gymnastics in the fall when Ava is old enough to take class.
Back to T-ball: First practice went well, and the game went even better. (She wore her outfit for two days straight.) Elizabeth loves T-ball, and informed me she doesn't want to go to gymnastics anymore and wants to play T-ball every day. Hopefully, her enthusiasm lasts until the end of the season. I would like to thank her cousin, Chance, for teaching her the fundamentals, she is actually quite good. She is probably the third best kid on her team, an the other two are better only because they will be 5 next month and have bit more speed, power, and coordination. I will tell you it quite funny to watch these kids play. The can't catch, their throwing isn't much better, and some even run the wrong way after hitting the ball two feet, but it is a really good non competitive atmosphere and the kids love it.
Time Out!
"You get what you get, and you don't throw a fit. "
That is our mantra around our house, unfortunately when the girls can't follow this one simple rule it leads to time out. I found this scene somewhat comical as they stood in their respective corners screaming at the top of their lungs, while a concerned Casey crawled between the two of them to inquire what all the fuss was about. Maybe, I should have taken a video instead of just pictures.



There is Nothing Like Weddings and Funerals to Bring People Together
Unfortunately, it was the latter that brought all of our family together...
Elizabeth and I were in the DC area for business at the end of February and made our rounds through Pennsylvania to visit with family. Little did we know that we would be back two weeks later for my grandmother's funeral. It was a sad reason to have to make the trip, but it was truly wonderful to be able to take all the kids with me to meet aunts, uncles, cousins, grandparents, extended family and friends that we don't get to see as often as we would like. (I also have to mention that is possible to fly solo with 3 kids and car seats. ) I feel especially fortunate to get to see my sister, her husband and two boys again, as they just found out they will be packing up in the next two months and moving to Germany for the next 3 years. Lizzy really enjoys playing with her 3 year old cousin Sam, and says that when she has a baby she is going to name him Baby Cole.
We were able to get all of the cousins to sit together for 3.4 seconds and snap a couple of group photos. Grammy of course was happy to have all her grand babies all in one place, but I am also sure she was equally glad when we all left and she had some piece and quiet again.
Ryan's father passed as soon as we returned from Pennsylvania, which then brought together the other side of the family. Elizabeth, Ava, and Casey were once again reunited with their other cousins Reina and Milo. New baby Liam was not in attendance, being only 6 days old.
P.S. Somewhere in that month of chaos, I celebrated my birthday.
Now, I can really say that I am in my 30's.
Tuesday, March 24, 2009
There is a season
To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven
A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant, and a time to pluck up that which is planted
A time to kill, and a time to heal; a time to break down, and a time to build up
A time to weep, and a time to laugh; a time to mourn, and a time to dance
A time to cast away stones, and a time to gather stones together; a time to embrace, and a time to refrain from embracing
A time to get, and a time to lose; a time to keep, and a time to cast away
A time to rend, and a time to sew; a time to keep silence, and a time to speak
A time to love, and a time to hate; a time of war, and a time of peace.
It has been a rough couple of weeks for our family. On March 11, my grandmother, Veronica Elizabeth Cavender passed away at the age of 84. Then on March 16, Ryan's father, William Allen Knight III, died at the age of 62. In the mists of these sad events, we welcome into the world our newest nephew.
Monday, March 9, 2009
On the road again...
The week following the cruise, business took me to Washington DC. Since DC was our old stopping grounds and I still have friends and family there, plus the rest of my family is in Pennsylvania, I thought I would take advantage of the trip and bring Elizabeth along with me.
My best friend, Crystal hosted us at her house, and she watched Elizabeth for me during the days. This really wasn't a hardship for Elizabeth since she got to play with Crystal's kids Danielle(4) and Josephine(5) all day long. Plus she got to go to the zoo with Uncle Andrew one morning.
Once my work was done, we headed up to Pennsylvania for the weekend to visit with my family. It was a whirlwind trip, but worth every moment. We spent the night with Oma and Opa (my dad's parents). Oma is still as spry as ever and enjoyed rough and tumble activites with Elizabeth as some quiet time.
The next morning, my dad and uncle met up with us for brunch. Elizabeth was less than impressed with Uncle Neil's famous omlets, but the balloons that my dad's wife brought were a huge hit.
After Elizabth was finished kicking everyone's butt in sword fighting, we headed over to my mom's house for dinner. My sister and her two kids make the 7 hour treck down from New York to see us as well. I think Elizabeth favorite part of the visit to Grammy's house is that her cousin, Sam was there. He kept calling her "Hey, stranger" but they did have a good time playing with laser flashlight rings.
It was a surprise to both of us the next morning when we awoke to a dusting of snow on the ground. All Elizabeth wanted to do was go outside and make snow balls. Sam since living is upstate New York has probably had his fill of snow, but agreed to go outside with Elizabeth. I went out to supervise, and froze my butt off.
Luckily, the snow all melted by lunch time and Elizabeth and I pack up to head down to the airport. On our way south, we stopped by my grandmother's house (mom's mother) for a visit. She was the perfect hostess as always and made sure we were fed and entertained. She showed me be all her new pictures of the family, and lectured me on wearing a coat. Elizabeth showed her all of her treasures that she had collected at Grammy's house.
This was my first trip back east since June, and I felt very lucky to catch all of my family for a quick visit and to bring Elizabeth with me. We wished we could have stayed longer, and remember you are alway welcome at our house in San Antonio.

Opa and Elizabeth shared some bonding time, building pyramids and counting eggs.
The next morning, my dad and uncle met up with us for brunch. Elizabeth was less than impressed with Uncle Neil's famous omlets, but the balloons that my dad's wife brought were a huge hit.
After Elizabth was finished kicking everyone's butt in sword fighting, we headed over to my mom's house for dinner. My sister and her two kids make the 7 hour treck down from New York to see us as well. I think Elizabeth favorite part of the visit to Grammy's house is that her cousin, Sam was there. He kept calling her "Hey, stranger" but they did have a good time playing with laser flashlight rings.
It was a surprise to both of us the next morning when we awoke to a dusting of snow on the ground. All Elizabeth wanted to do was go outside and make snow balls. Sam since living is upstate New York has probably had his fill of snow, but agreed to go outside with Elizabeth. I went out to supervise, and froze my butt off.
Luckily, the snow all melted by lunch time and Elizabeth and I pack up to head down to the airport. On our way south, we stopped by my grandmother's house (mom's mother) for a visit. She was the perfect hostess as always and made sure we were fed and entertained. She showed me be all her new pictures of the family, and lectured me on wearing a coat. Elizabeth showed her all of her treasures that she had collected at Grammy's house.
This was my first trip back east since June, and I felt very lucky to catch all of my family for a quick visit and to bring Elizabeth with me. We wished we could have stayed longer, and remember you are alway welcome at our house in San Antonio.
Elizabeth is 4!
Don't believe me, well we have birthday party pictures to prove it. First, there was a party at school. That is the great thing about sharing your birthday with Valentine's Day, there is always a big to-do at school with lots of cupcakes, candy, and cards.
Then we took our cruise, which is a pretty nice way to celebrate your birthday. To top off all of that, we had a joint birthday celebration (BBQ and bouncy house) with her friend Joshua(3) and all their friends from our military playgroup.
Ryan made the cake.
I did some face painting. She did have a pirate eye patch also, until she wiped it off.
Next big milestones... Casey turns 1 and Ryan turns 30.
Then we took our cruise, which is a pretty nice way to celebrate your birthday. To top off all of that, we had a joint birthday celebration (BBQ and bouncy house) with her friend Joshua(3) and all their friends from our military playgroup.
Ryan made the cake.
I did some face painting. She did have a pirate eye patch also, until she wiped it off.
Next big milestones... Casey turns 1 and Ryan turns 30.
Sunday, March 8, 2009
Sorry to keep you waiting.
Sorry to leave our all our loyal fans hanging, you have all been waiting so patiently for a run down of cruise madness, birthday fun, and family visits.
Our travels have concluded, illnesses have left the building, and finally I have a few minutes to myself and the energy to put into messing with the computer.
Bear with me over the next few days and I will bring you all up to speed.
The Knight Family Vacation
This pretty much sums up our vacation.
Tired, uncooperative children, never sleeping in past 7am, hand foot and mouth disease, and the list goes on. Okay, maybe it wasn't all bad, but it was certainly memorable.
We started our trip when the alarm clock sounded at 4am, and piled everyone into the car to the airport. American Airlines charges $15 to check each bag, so we decided that we could do a five day cruise with just carry on bags, so Ryan was loaded down like a pack mule, and I looked like Old Mother Hubbard with the kids. We flew to Miami to jump aboard our ship. The flight was uneventful, finding a cab driver to take us to the pier was a little trickier since we didn't bring the car seats for the 15 minute drive to the port. At least embarkation went fairly quickly, since we were all pretty frazzled after a long day of travel. Once on board, we got the girls tucked in for a nap. Their bunks were a bit tight, but they didn't seem to mind. Everything is tiny on a ship.
Actually, we reserved two rooms with connecting door, and that worked out perfectly. We bolted the door to the kids room and just kept the connecting door cracked while they were sleeping. Casey's crib was wedged between the closet and the bathroom, and the girls had their own twin beds. Our rooms even had windows, so that we had some sense of night and day.
After getting a nap in, we were ready to find some food. I think that is one of the main reasons people come on cruises. We were on Norwegian Cruise Lines, home of Freestyle Cruising. We took that to heart and did meals a bunch of different ways during the cruise. We had some family dinners in the main dining room, so nights we fed the girls early in the buffet line and Ryan and I (plus Casey asleep in a stroller) went to dinner on our own later, we mixed up breakfast and lunch as well with some sit down and some buffet. The buffet worked really well, until the ship instituted additional sanitation measures due to a reported outbreak of a GI virus. Here is my band of misfits practicing their modeling faces...Blue Steel while waiting for dinner to arrive.

We had a day at sea before pulling into Grand Cayman. So took the girls for a swim and let them play in the kids club for a few hours. Ryan and I did some trivia and beer tasting where we walked away with 1 quart beer steins and both won t-shirts. Casey was too young for the kids club so he was a long for the ride, literally, we borrowed a little umbrella stroller and Ava push him all around the ship. We also saw a great show that night with the ship band and dance troupe. All three kids were amazed. I think it is the longest I have every seen the 3 of them sit still.
Our first port of call was Grand Cayman Island. The girls have been asking for the last 6 months to go to the beach, so they were very exited to get off the ship. There isn't a deep water port on that island so we had to use tenders to get to shore. Even that didn't curb their enthusiasm. Casey was still along for the ride, his mode of transportation just changed. He switched from stroller to backpack.

They had a blast on the beach, building sand castles and playing in the ocean. Even Casey got into the fun, and remembered not to eat the sand this time.



However, after a few hours of fun in the sun, the youngest two were wiped out. Casey was smart to nap in the shade. I ended up with a nasty sunburn on my back.

Side bar: When we got back from the beach and were hosing off the kids we noticed a rash on the kids legs and butts, and Casey seemed rather warm and crabby. We gave him some Tylenol and chalked it up to teething, sand fleas, and possible ear ache.
The next day the ship stopped in Cozumel. This was my 3rd time to this island and Ryan's 2nd, so I wanted to do something other than just the beach. So I signed us up for a 7 hour shore excursion to see Tulum (Mayan ruins) on main land Mexico. By this point in the trip the girls were suffering from the cumulative effects of lack of sleep, so they were whiny, argumentative, and just plain difficult. Casey who is typically the happiest baby on the face of the earth was absolutely miserable and refusing to eat, drink, or take his pacifier. I really can't tell you a darn thing the tour guide said but here is a picture of Tulum.
Tulum over looks the ocean, and all the girls wanted to do there was go to the beach, so we hiked down to try and salvage this shore excursion. Looking back on my decision making, I shouldn't have spent a ton of money on the trip to Tulum, we should have just taken a $10 cab ride to the beach in Cozumel.
After our two stops, we had another day at sea. Casey was still absolutely miserable. The girls were relatively well behaved. They took a nap every day, but didn't go to bed until 10/11pm every night, and were up before 7am every morning. Plus, when we need a break from they, we could send them off to the kids club for a few hours to be entertained with movies, crafts, games, and a jungle gym. Then Ryan and I could escape for another round of beer tasting. On the last night, the ship put on another fantastic show with aerial acrobatics and some other amazing stunts. The kids were enthralled again, and I even took Elizabeth to the show twice.
The flight home with three whiny, tired kids was not very enjoyable. It made you ask yourself why you every bother leaving the house in the first place. However, we survive it and I don't think we annoyed our fellow travelers too much.
The day after getting home, the girls stared complaining that their mouths hurt and they didn't want to eat. When I took a look inside, their mouths were plastered with ulcers. Finally, putting two and two together. The doctor in our family came up with hand, foot, and mouth disease (rash, fever, mouth ulcers). It still didn't make it any better that Casey, who were were banking on being a perfect angel on the cruise, was a miserable mess, but at least it gave us a reasonable explanation why he didn't want to eat, drink, or be consoled. Ryan was spared, but Elizabeth, Ava, and I spent the following week miserable because our mouths hurt so much. At least I lost any weight that I might I have put on during the cruise.
I don't think we are going on another family vacation anytime soon, maybe not until the kids are all over the age of 7. And as much as we love Chaos, Destruction, and Mayhem, ( I mean Elizabeth, Ava, and Casey) we are still dreaming of the day that we will take a vacation without them.
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